Brittney Moses

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Mar 29

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Breaking the cycle in any part of our lives begins with being aware of the narratives we were born into, because it didn’t just start with you ❤️

If trauma, harm or injustice can run through families, cultures, institutions so can healing and renewal when we’re willing to participate in a new narrative.

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Mar 26

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Weekend reminder: Rest is your souls divine right 🤍🌿

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Mar 25

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Are you being lazy or are you trapped in the narrative that you always have to be doing more or advancing yourself in some way. I cant begin to express how dehumanizing this perspective is to our soul.
Rest is an innate part of humanity. We never should have been made to feel less than for it. 🤍 #HappyWeekend

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Mar 24

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I finished my last exams and papers of the quarter and took a deep exhale while heading into a needed spring break. #GradLife

Then I automatically started thinking about how to maximize the newly freed time to get more done. “Great I could use this time to work on more podcast stuff, create more content, maybe write a blog, etc!”

Then I thought…but what if I didn’t. What if I did less. What if I actually rested.

What if I downshifted and used this time to live more slowly instead.

I remember one time telling my therapist about how I’d wake up in the morning thinking about how to maximize my day.

She mentioned how I’m already starting my day in fight or flight mode. I really let that one sink in.

Why did I feel the constant need to “maximize” everything all the time?

Where were these narratives coming from?

So many narratives come from outside of us, many from our culture and our soul knows the difference. It never feels at peace living outside of ourselves.

I’ve been having more shifts in thought like this lately as I’ve been deconstructing the cultural narrative around work, hustle, worth and significance.

It’s something I have to keep returning to while finding new rhythms that work for me in each season.

When @thenapministry said “Exhaustion keeps us numb” and “I will no longer be a martyr for grind culture.” I felt that.

So I’m dedicating this page to not only focus on mental health and mind-body wellness but also whole living through rest, authenticity and connection.

If you’re feeling some of these same needs to shift in life, you’re in the right place 🤍

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Mar 21

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Every emotion serves a purpose. Even the negatively stigmatized ones like anger.

But what if I told you even anger was a part of reconnecting back with yourself and the truth of your experiences to help you move forward? That it could help us disconnect from harmful narratives that we internalized from harmful experiences and instead reauthor new and healthy ones for our life forward.

Often times at first people feel hopeless, depressed, insecure, lost and when they begin healing they’re taken off guard by the amount of anger that kicks in and was underneath it all because they had disconnected from themselves to stay safe all along. Here’s to changing the narrative 🤍

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Mar 20

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Happy first day of Spring! 🌿✨
Today we’re feeling especially green and appreciating the small joys- like these beautiful handcrafted mugs I found at the farmers market by @miamor.artesanal. They’ve been creating these through their family for over 500 years and that just feels so special. To take part in someone’s history.

The older I get the more I feel myself moving from the individualistic to the collective- and how we’re all woven together through history and time and shaping the world around us no matter how big or small our contributions may seem. Everything we do is sealed in history at each moment and ripples through the world, through every connection with one another and that’s kinda cool to think about. Especially in a social media world that encourages “main character energy” I find it refreshing and freeing to be apart of the whole. Like it or not, we’re all in this together 😉

When looking at the bigger picture from humanity, to the ecosystems to the cosmos we can appreciate that we’re a part of this great work that God is doing and unfolding over time and today I’m just taking a deep breath to appreciate being a part of it all in whatever part I have to play. 🤍

What are you grateful for today?

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Mar 19

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Take a step back to look at the bigger picture of what matters most to you in life and build your week around that. 🤍

What helps put you in the best position for the week ahead?

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Mar 19

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In honor of World Water Day today we “walked for water” with the @thirstproject to raise awareness around the millions of people who walk for water every day all over the world.

Women and children in developing countries walk an average of 3.75 miles/day to fetch dirty, contaminated water. Most people use what are called “Jerry Cans” to collect water in which are the yellow, diesel cans you see us carrying. However, when full, weighing around 44 lbs., making this daily trek even harder.

I’m eager to dive more into this and was glad I could bring, Austin, my 13 year old along to learn and become more socially conscious about these issues. Especially considering how much of a youth driven cause Thirst Project has become 👏🏽

Shoutout to @sethmaxwell1 for all his incredible work and founding the Thirst Project, who’ve is a nonprofit organization that works with the support of young people to END the global water crisis by building freshwater wells in developing communities that need safe, clean drinking water. Learn more about their work and how to get involved at thirstproject.org 👈🏽

Can’t think of a better way to spend our Saturday.

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Mar 16

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Centering my mind, releasing bodily tension, getting blood flow and a full range of motion helps me feel more clear and energized when getting the day started. What’s your most ideal way to start the day? 🤍

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Mar 16

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What do you think is one of the most interesting aspects of the gut-brain connection and mental health? Did you know any of this before?

This is one of many reasons I advocate looking at mental health from a holistic perspective. Mental health isn’t just in our mind, it’s also in our bodies 🤍

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Mar 14

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Tried my first barre class this morning with @purebarrewoodlandhills and it got me right in all the right places. 🔥

Barre is a full body workout utilizing the ballet barre and incorporating different elements of ballet, yoga and Pilates, while targeting low impact, high intensity movements that help tone the body. Needless to say, I will definitely be back 😆

Have you ever taken a barre class before and is it something you’d want to try?

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Mar 12

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Mar 10

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Things you don’t have to be a therapist to do to start improving your relationships with people 🤍

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Mar 9

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There’s no right or wrong answer, just the truth and what we choose to do with it 🤍

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Mar 7

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Tuesday thoughts 💭❤️
I worry that the source of so much anxiety and depression or lack of fulfillment in our generation has come from being distracted to look for life in all the wrong places.

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Feb 20

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Monday thoughts 💭: Connection > Performance

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Feb 19

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As someone who has been on both sides, as both the one who helps and has needed help, I can tell you first hand how subtly mental health conditions can develop or present in our lives before it becomes our norm even when it’s completely debilitating to parts of our life.

We may just assume that these extreme or isolating ways of thinking or living are just a product of our logical thoughts, or it’s just our “personality” or the “way we are” and limit ourselves to true healing and another level of freedom.

I’m here to encourage that that doesn’t have to be the case and your precious life is worthy of real solutions ❤️

*Mental help resources at the link in bio*

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Feb 15

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Thanks for loving me so well today and every day @jstollpiano 🥹❤️🥰 #FirstMarriedValentines #HappyValentinesDay

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Feb 14

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Prayer, movement and gratitude have been the best combo to start my day 🤍 Happy Valentines Day 😃💕

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Feb 13

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What does childlike faith look like to you?

“Owe nothing to anyone—except for your obligation to love one another. If you love your neighbor, you will fulfill the requirements of God’s law.” -Romans‬ ‭13‬:‭8‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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Feb 12

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Stopping for breakfast in Santa Barbara, pausing to breathe and check in with each other, was just what we needed this morning 🤍🥰

As we hold ourselves accountable to live out our vows daily(a snippet from mine):

“I promise to support you, believe in you and recognize your strengths and potential, especially in the moments when it’s hardest to see.

I promise to respect you and hold you in the highest regard as my husband. To be patient and to remember that all things between us are rooted in love. That we are a team.

I promise to love you faithfully and protect our marriage fiercely.

I promise to be your safe space of kindness, compassion and understanding for you to turn to when you need it most. And that you’ll know you’re never alone in this life.” ❤️

📍 @sb_boathouse

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Feb 9

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What life has felt like lately 🤍🌿🙏🏽
I wish I could begin to describe how my life has changed inside out over the past year- a total refresh of my mind, my body, my soul. All birthed out of some of the most difficult hardships we’ve faced individually and collectively over the past few years- grief that’s awakened to life, anxiety absolved into mindful living, hustle exchanged for presence, a deeper gratitude for community, health challenges that united partnership with my body, an immersive faith and clarity of self. Maybe one of these days I’ll have all of the words.

For now I thank God for how light, how expansive, how full of love and clarity the days have brought me. It feels good here. 🤍

And thank you @the.brainhealth.doctor for your words as we hope to open the perspective on how wholesome healing can look.💯

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Feb 3

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If we only genuinely show love to those who look like us, live like us, believe like us, think like us, vote like us, then the reality is we’re really only loving ourselves. But I believe we’re called to something much greater that bears much more fruit in the world ❤️

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” - Mark 12:30-31

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Jan 30

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For the one who feels like their faith is changing… 🫶🏽

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Jan 29

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Some real honest thoughts ahead‼️: For some reason we box the God of the entire Universe into only operating within certain formats, methods and spaces.

And He’s certainly in these spaces…

But Deuteronomy 10:14 says, “Look, the highest heavens and the earth and EVERYTHING in it ALL belong to God.”

James 1:17 says, EVERY good gift and every perfect gift is from above and comes from God.
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Acts 17:28 says for “in Him we LIVE and MOVE and EXIST”.

Faith is a flow that we live in, a state of being, a constant opportunity where we’re invited to meet God in all things. Where every moment can become sacred and a glimpse of the nature of heaven felt in our hearts.

How exciting and what a wonder it’s been to view life through today.

But I wrestled, doubted, healed, unlearned, relearned and surrendered entirely to get here. And there was a time I wasn’t sure if I’d ever get here and honestly that scared me- because I didn’t feel like that same 20 yr old in ministry.

I’d seen more. I’d been through more. I’d been more disappointed by people who claimed the same faith as me. I witnessed more scandals followed by more gaslighting. I’d developed more critical thinking. I discerned more. I learned to “test everything that is said” (1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭21‬). I’d walked through complex and darker places with myself and others that could no longer be bypassed with simplistic black and white platitudes.

I finally realized that my faith journey was less about trying to recapture the novelty of where I used to be and instead learning to integrate all of my experiences forward with an authentic, nuanced and more whole faith.

I soon found a faith that was less performative, more honest and more sustainable. A faith that was no longer a “clanging symbol” but more relational and an internally secure way of living. A faith that was mentally, emotionally and spiritually mature.

Which I now realize was always part of the journey, I was bound to get here.

But I’m so grateful that as we journey through all our life experiences -the good, the bad and the ugly- nothing separates us from Gods love (Romans 8:31). This keeps me going through the hard parts. ❤️

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Jan 28

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Weekend read 📚✨: The Myth of Normal- Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture by @gabormatemd.

What’s something you think we’ve “normalized” that probably isn’t great for the health of our society as a whole?

Im a big advocate of a system holistic and integrated mental & physical health and get excited when I see voices in our society who are speaking into the same direction. So I’m looking forward to diving into the Myth of Normal this weekend. 👏🏽

One of my favorite quotes so far:
“Much of what passes for normal in our society is neither healthy, nor natural… Health and illness are not random states in a particular body or body part. They are, in fact, an expression of an entire life lived, one that cannot, in turn, be understood in isolation: it is influenced by – or better yet, it arises from – a web of circumstances, relationships, events, and experiences.”

A small recap of the book: “So what is really "normal" when it comes to health? Over four decades of clinical experience, Maté has come to recognize the prevailing understanding of "normal" as false, neglecting the roles that trauma and stress, as well as the pressures of modern-day living, exert on our bodies and our minds at the expense of good health. For all our expertise and technological sophistication, Western medicine often fails to treat the whole person, ignoring how today's culture stresses the body, burdens the immune system, and undermines emotional balance.
Now Maté brings his perspective to the great untangling of common myths about what makes us sick, connects the dots between the maladies of individuals and the declining soundness of society--and offers a compassionate guide for health and healing.”

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Jan 19

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Who else loves a good morning skincare routine to recenter before the day starts ✨💕🧖🏽‍♀️

All products: http://liketk.it/2SgoE #liketkit @liketoknow.it

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Jan 17

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I had the most satisfying morning burn at @pilatesplusla this morning 🔥👏🏽 Are my arms and legs shaking? YES. Would I do it again? Heck YES. There’s truly nothing like feeling the strength, mental resilience and energy flow of my body to start the day. It just gets me in the right mindset.

Have you tried Pilates yet? And if so, how much do you love it 😜

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Jan 16

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What are some of your favorite mental health coping skills that have worked for you best? Here are some of mine:

Cognitive reframing- Is essentially challenge our negative thoughts and replacing them with a different perspective or healthy alternative ways of thinking about a situation in the moment

Breath-work: to help physically regulate the nervous system which can them help with emotional regulation and calming anxiety

Journaling: As a practice of self reflection, gaining self awareness and to move through thought processing

Vagus Nerve Activation- the vagus nerve is the longest nerve in our body that counters our fight or flight system and when activated can help reground the body by massaging, cold water immersion and humming

Prayer- and reconnecting with God, pouring out my thoughts feeling and emotions to God, regrounding my spirit.

Movement- through exercise, hikes, walks outside, stretching, dancing etc to get energy dispersed and flowing throw the brain and body + feel good endorphins!

Aromatherapy- whether it be essential oil roll-ons and diffusers or a candle to bring a sense of warmth and calm to reground our senses.

Visualization- is bigger than I think we realize. Many times our negative & anxious thoughts are paired with imagining the worst outcome. So re-vizualizing other outcomes. That things could work out, that you do get through this, that we can adapt no matter the outcome. Or even just visualizing how we want to intentionally show up for our day.

Did any of these stand out for you? 🤍

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Jan 11

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They say that if you don’t make time for your wellness, you’ll be forced to make time for your illness.

And while that’s not something I’d claim on anybody, I can say personally after having a couple health scares at the end of last year that when your health is in jeopardy you soon realize nothing else matters.

It’s something that has really sobered me to prioritize wellness even more this year.

Some affirmations for our health to embody this year:

✨ I take care of my body with gratitude for how it takes care of me and all we’ve been through.

✨ I recognize that rest and recovery are a part of my overall well-being.

✨ I am open to learning and trying new things to improve my health.

✨ I see movement and exercise as an act of love for my body.

✨ I give my body the care and nourishment it needs to thrive.

Comment AFFIRMED if you’re claiming these with me.

And shoutout to @hannahfrankson for this morning’s killer ride. It was just what I needed 🔥

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Jan 9

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Praise God when we don’t look like what we’ve been through 🙌🏽😩🤍

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Jan 8

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Here’s to more museum days in 2023 🥂 - thanks for being the best company and art history connoisseur @chloejlandis 🤍

📍 Getty Villa Museum- Malibu, CA

Some background: The Getty Villa is a actually full-scale reconstruction of the Villa dei Papiri, a luxurious Roman residence buried when Mount Vesuvius erupted in Pompeii.

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Jan 6

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Where do you find yourself on the Stages of Change when it comes to a specific area of your goals this year?

*Clarification: Relapse can happen at any stage 🤍

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Jan 5

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Making resolutions < reframing your identity. What are you claiming about your identity this year? And therefore what type actions line up with that? 👇🏽

The more we commit to actions that reflect this identity, the more those actions build & strengthen our identity and who we become in a cycle until it’s a part of us.

From a faith-based perspective, this is very aligned with the process of sanctification. We are a new creation with a new identity that were called to align with as the person that we are created to be and in this new identity, we commit ourselves to different actions that then transform our character, and essentially, who we become in the long run in partnership with God. Amen?

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Jan 2

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Do you have a word or phrase for the new year? Drop it in the comments below!
Mine has been: Health

I struggled with a lot of first time health issues at the end of the year that has motivated me even more toward a lifestyle of holistic wellness 🤍

How are you feeling now that we’re a couple days into 2023?

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Dec 31

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Happy birthday daddy 🥹❤️ Here’s a snippet of such a sweet speech my dad gave out our wedding this summer.

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Dec 31

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Wishing my dad the biggest Happy Birthday 🎉The first man I ever loved and the best dad a girl could ask for 😍❤️ Thank you for making me feel so loved 🥹 (swipe for a little Red PowerRanger action 😜)

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Merry Christmas from our family to yours! 🎄Sending so much love ❤️✨

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”
- ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭9‬:‭6‬

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Dec 17

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10 Ways to Realistically Take Care of You Mental Health as Christmas Approaches.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that every year doesn’t look the same and we have to allow ourselves the grace and flexibility for change while checking in with our needs realistically. ❤️

What have you found to be good for your mental health around the holiday season?

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Dec 13

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Nocturnal panic attacks can feel wild but you’re not alone 🤍

Things that can help and have helped me cope through the roughest parts of a panic attack:
* Slow breathing to calm my body & let it pass through my body
* Praying through it & listening to scripture meditation
* Lavender essential oils
* Hydrating with a glass of water
* Placing and ice pack on my chest or the back of my neck
* Not forcing myself back to sleep and falling asleep when my body was ready
* Reminding myself that it will pass, it always does. So making yourself comfortable through it
* Sometimes removing yourself from the room or space where the panic attack took place
* Distracting myself while I’m awake with one of my favorite shows
* Cutting out caffeine or alcohol especially before bed
* Temporary beta blockers, because sometimes you need something to physically rest your nervous system, and bring your body into a calm. Always consult with your doctor about what’s best for you.

Have you ever experienced a panic attack or nocturnal panic attack? And if so, what has helped you?

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Dec 6

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SWIPE to see what a year it’s been on the @faithmentalwellnesspodcast! I’m so grateful for the community of listeners here who have a heart to dive into the nuances of the intersection of mental health, faith and wellness to be better supporters of those around us and ourselves on this journey.

When I first started this podcast, I wanted to create the resource that my past-self needed in the depths of my own mental health struggles, and not finding many balanced conversations at this intersection.

Now it’s become a resource to so many around the world and we’ve all learned so much from the shared wisdom of mental health professionals, pastoral leaders, researchers, clinicians advocates and those with first-hand lived experiences. And we’ve covered so many dynamic topics along the way. I’m so grateful and so so honored to be a part of this work.

So I’m curious:
What topics or questions would you like to see discussed in the new year?

Tag someone who you think would be a great addition to the conversation!

And tag those who you think would benefit from this podcast.

Happy holidays and much love to you friends!! 🎄🎉❤️

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Dec 5

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Starting off this Monday with a grounding prayer of gratitude and peace 🙏🏽🤍

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Dec 2

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Spiritual bypassing vs genuine support
I’d love to hear your thoughts. What common forms of spiritual bypassing have you witnessed and what effect did it have for you?

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Nov 27

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Sometimes “you’ve changed” means “you’ve outgrown my comfort zone” 🤍 Shrinking in order to stay safe may also be a “fawn” trauma response. Check out the latest episode 72 for more on this on the @faithmentalwellnesspodcast.

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Nov 26

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The better question might be “How much time are you potentially willing to give up?” 😂 but really as always, do what’s most fitting for your situation ❤️

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Nov 25

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Loving this trend and Couldn’t imagine a better match 🤍

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Nov 22

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My first Get Ready With Me ✨: Getty Museum Edition ✌🏽🤍

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Nov 21

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Here we go part 2: Things I Stopped Doing After 30 💯❤️

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Nov 21

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Things I stopped doing after 30 (that have honestly been so freeing and good for my mind & soul)

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Nov 21

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Sustainable has been my word of the year, because while I am fully confident that there are so many things we are capable of doing- you wonderfully talented human being- it means little if we can’t sustain it- mentally, physically or emotionally.

Or if it overly compromises the things that matter most- my mind, my integrity, my physical health, my home, my family.

The older I get, the more clear it is to me.

The more I understand how stress stores in the body and physically breaks us down over time, the more clear it is to me.

The more I witness the difference in how I show up in life and in my work when I’m grounded versus trying to “keep up”, the more clear it is to me.

So if you can tell you’ve been burnt out and disconnected from your truest self by operating on the fumes of what’s do-able, or the fumes of playing catch up in the name of staying “relevant” let this be your green light to pause and rethink strategies that are sustainable to your life. Because the world will go on but there is only one of you. ❤️

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Nov 20

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Brunch + museum day at the @hammer_museum are the kinds of weekends I live for 😍 With my girl @chloejlandis 👯‍♀️

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Nov 18

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Let’s talk about relationship anxiety 🤍 FULL VIDEO on YouTube at the link in my bio ✨

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Nov 15

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When there’s a big gap between how much energy we’re expending versus how much we’re receiving it can be a sure set up for burn out of energy, creativity and relationships. We’re not machines. We’re human beings. I hope you find ways to pour back into your mind, body and soul this week 🤍

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San Fransisco you are simply stunning this time of year 😍 This weekend we made a quick trip for a masterful solo piano recital by the hubby @jstollpiano who truly never ceases to amaze me with his talent, passion and humble dedication. Plus getting to spend time seeing my sister-in-love @karmel_michelle is always a bonus 💗 I don’t know about you but I’m loving being bundled up in these cooler temperatures 🥰

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Nov 14

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Food affects your mood 🥦🍌🍓🫐🥑🍅🍊(Bookmark this info for later!)

We can understand food as a couple of things: fuel for our body and the chemical building blocks for our brain. ⠀⠀⠀
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On a basic level, food breaks down into glucose which is a source of stored energy that keeps our bodies going and our brain powered.
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On a mental health level, we have something called the enteric nervous system (ENS) which is also known as the gut-brain connection where there is bi-directional communication between our gut and our brain- from what we’re digesting providing the nutrients and building blocks of neurotransmitters being relayed to our brain.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

In fact, 90% of serotonin, the neurochemical known for mood balance and well-being, is produced in the gut. ⠀⠀

Many refer to the gut as the “second brain” for these reason. ⠀

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So having a lack of essential nutrient & vitamin sources such as found in fruits and veggies, proteins, and fatty fish/avocados (omega-3’s) or energy depletion because you haven’t been fully nourished, can both be immediate (and resolvable) reasons you’re mood has been feeling off. ⠀⠀
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We talk a lot about eating certain foods when it comes to our bodies, but how would it change things if we knew it was affecting our minds?

It’s the topic I love to share personally and get asked about often! For more details on nutrition and mental health check out our episodes 7, 36 & 37 on the @faithmentalwellnesspodcast with some incredible medical guests! ❤️

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Some reminders of what you are worth:
- You are worth being committed to wholeheartedly
- You are worth being fully known and fully loved
- You are worth being able to bring up hard things without fear of abandonment or rejection
- You are worth a love that brings you peace and joy instead of chaos and confusion
- You are worth your heart being protected by having clear communication and healthy boundaries
- You are worth someone who shows effort in wanting to know you and grow to love you

I know loneliness and the confusion and pressures of this world can begin to blur these lines, so let me make it perfectly clear for you 👌🏽

Sincerely, a young single mom who was utterly broken and found redemptive love ❤️

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Didn’t see that coming 🤪 So grateful for you @jstollpiano 😆😘

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Nov 11

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The demonization of emotions, let’s talk about it ☕️
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By constantly pitting ourselves against emotions as the enemy we disconnect ourselves from the same feedback system that is meant to inform us about our convictions, our necessary boundaries, our wounds and areas of needed healing. We disconnect from God-given intuitions and discernment.
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Choosing to be self aware about our emotions doesn’t mean we have to let our feelings rule us or define us, but we can ask questions like:⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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- what may have triggered these feelings⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
- is this an unaddressed area that may need healing?
- am I facing something that doesn’t align with my convictions and what are those convictions?
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I’m not saying that we should submit ourselves to every thought that pops into our head. But our automatic reactions can tell us a lot about what we’ve truly been storing. “As a face is reflected in water, so the heart reflects the real person.” - Proverbs 27:19⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Feelings may not always be factual but they exist for a reason. Whether that leads us back to the feet of Christ, or onto a healing journey with a trusted counselor or taking the necessary steps to better align with our convictions and boundaries- wisdom and discernment hand in hand with emotional indicators can ultimately lead us to genuine growth. ❤️

Check out the @faithmentalwellnesspodcast for more on this 🙌🏽

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One of the most common questions I get asked about mental health is, how much of it is the spiritual and how much of it is physical?
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While this question is completely valid, the issue is that it always assumes the two are mutually exclusive. That it’s either this OR that.
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I always tell people, as believers, it can be both.
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Just like with physical illness, we can pray for healing and deliverance, while still seeking the practical and physical healing that we need, especially as symptoms persist.
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God is not limited to working things together in our lives in one way.
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While the mind is impacted by our spiritual state, the brain is also a biological organ with neural networks and it’s level of functioning impacts our thoughts, mood and behaviors.
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Even though we are spiritually renewed in Christ, our humanity, and all that comes with it, does not leave us. We still have to work through the human experience; really, for the rest of our lives. The hope is that we grow what we go through, both mentally and spiritually.
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Is it spiritual? Biblically, it could be.
Is it a malfunction in brain chemistry or the natural result of things like trauma, devastating events, our environment? Naturally, it very well could be.
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We care for both. It’s usually an oversimplification to assume there’s a single cause. We ultimately want to see people, including ourselves, healed, restored and showing up for the life we’ve been called to. It’s safe to make space for a holistic perspective of the fact that our mental health can be impacted biologically, psychologically, socially and spiritually and that our Father also cares about all of the details of our life.
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5 signs that could actually be social anxiety. 🚫 this is not therapy or a diagnosis. It’s important to reach out to a clinician or therapist to further explore what’s going on especially if it’s affecting your quality of life- mostly because you’re worth having solutions and seeing a change in your life. 🤍

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5 things to LET GO of for your mental health. Cheers to the other side of freedom 🙏🏽🤍

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Sunday thoughts: Not taking Gods name in vain. 🤍 Welcome to the side of instagram where we’re all about mental, emotional and spiritual safety 🙏🏽

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5 happy years later we stand by this 💯 It’s not about control or trust issues but protecting a marriage we want to last a lifetime ❤️

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Drop a ❤️ if you’re a woman who loves her layers 😄 It’s finally sweater weather in LA and I’m living in it all week🍁🍂🧥

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It’s hard to authentically heal and grow in the same environment that’s keeping us sick- it’s not just you and you deserve the space to thrive ❤️

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One of the first steps of manipulation and control can be to disconnect people from their thoughts feelings and convictions- whether that be in a general language or spiritual language.

I’m gonna shoot it straight because I believe we’re all mature here, amen?

That transition, that career move, that relationship decision, that health decision, mental health choices, that financial choice, that degree choice, etc.

I’ve seen too many people (including myself at one point), make subjective choices according to the preference & pressures of others, sometimes even cloaked in the name of “Gods will”, only for it to backfire and set people back detrimentally.

Counsel is a great sounding board to have. I believe in it. I believe in collective wisdom. But I also believe that what works for someone else may not always be as applicable or beneficial in our situation. Sometimes it may even create more harm. And that’s something worth keeping in mind.

If God is the source of wisdom and knowledge, then God is also in common sense wisdom, practicality and discernment. Things that we also personally have access to.

I wish I learned this and stuck to my own convictions when it came to certain life choices sooner than later. Because once I did so much fell into alignment in my life for the better. And I post this hoping someone else gets it sooner.

If you haven’t explicitly heard it said yet:
You are allowed the space to get with your convictions, get with your trusted people, get with God and decide what is right for you based on the fact that it is you (and maybe your dependents too) living with the outcome. ❤️

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We’ve got to keep our theological perspective on health consistent, including when it comes to mental health which has a dynamic of factors including biological, neurological, genetic, environmental, social, psychological and spiritual.

I’ve worn glasses for my eyesight since the third grade because my eyes aren’t functioning properly. I’ve never had someone question or assume my faith because I’ve decided to use a corrective prescription to help my eyes function instead of just trusting God for clear eyesight.

In the same way when it comes to mental health we are still dealing with organs and biological systems that sometimes need more correcting so someone can get back to basic functioning and show up for the lives that they’re called to live.

Everybody’s journey to healing and recovery is going to look different because our make up and our stories are different. I am so happy to hear about the testimonies of instant healing but we also need to leave room for the process of healing when it doesn’t happen right away.

That doesn’t make someone less of a person of faith, it makes them human. ❤️

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Have you ever thought about how painful and traumatic events affect our spiritual life?

Including how close we feel to God, how we believe God sees us, how safe we feel in relationships and how we approach the world around us. More importantly, how do we begin to heal when the hurt has come from within our own faith community or when spiritual language was used to enable the hurt?

We know a lot about physical injuries, but what about spiritual injuries- and how that affects our faith and our relationships?

These are all vital questions to ask and ones that I looked forward to exploring on this week's podcast.

This week on the Faith & Mental Wellness Podcast, we dive into the nuanced conversation of When Faith Hurts: The Spiritual Impact of Trauma with Victor Vieth.

In this episode we discuss:
• Identifying spiritual injuries
• The impact of abuse on spirituality
• Signs and examples of spiritual blocks in our lives
• The role of faith in coping and healing from abuse
• What healthy spiritual care look like and how we can deal with spiritual injuries better in the church today

Take a listen at the link in my bio!
Or comment “Latest Podcast” and I’ll DM you all the links!
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Brought to you by @uhsmhealth 💛

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✨ Press and hold to pause for some midweek reminders ✨❤️

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Forgiveness is freedom. Boundaries are wisdom. ❤️

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Save for later & READ CAPTION FOR DETAILS ✨ 10 foods that can help your mental health ✨
Want to help better support your mental health through your nutrition? Consider adding more of these to your diet (as appropriate) 😃

1. Salmon & fatty fish (Contains omega-3, healthy fatty acids for the brain)
2. Leafy greens (Full of fiber and rich in folate)
3. Avocados (rich in omega 3’s)
4. Probiotics (Yogurt, Kefir)- in supporting gut health
5. Whole grains: Oats, Brown rice, whole wheat
6. Blueberries (Rich in antioxidants & reduces inflammation- helping memory and cognition)
7. Nuts & Seeds (Walnuts)- good source of Plant based omega 3’s
8. Turmeric (with black pepper)- curcumin can help increase BDNF or growth of new neurons & reduces neuroinflammation
9. Oysters- great source of omega 3, B12, zinc and iron which all benefit brain functioning
10. Dark chocolate 🍫😋- high in flavonoids which can help increase brain flow

Which of these would you like to include more of in your diet?? 👇🏽

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All of our wedding photos & details are now up on the blog at the link in my bio 😆🎉❤️

I knew when planning it would be ideal to have an outdoor wedding with a sunset reception, dancing the night away under a summer sky with hanging lights. And it was just that- magical. ✨

If you have any questions about our details or the wedding planning process, let me know in the comments below and I’d be more than happy to share as I truly enjoyed planning our wedding!

Florals: @princessfallar at @flawlessweddingsevents
Photography/Videography: @funlovincamera_weddings
Rentals: @abovethetopevents
Dress: @bellabridalcouture
Dress alterations: @vipalterations
Make up: @ninjaaaaaa
Venue: @sherwood_country_club

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✨Self-Reminders for When Anxiety Rises✨ (from someone who’s been there ❤️)

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✨ Breathe & release ✨ Tuesday reminders ❤️

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Would you know how to respond if someone you know shared with you that they were having suicidal thoughts?

This month is Suicide Awareness Month and the podcast is back, as we dive into the layered conversation of Suicide Prevention & Support For Loved Ones (and in the Church) with @RobertVore and Jonathan Singer.

So, in episode 68 we discuss:
• Some factors (and warning signs) that lead to a higher risk of suicide
• How to assess that someone may be suicidal
How to respond to someone who expresses thoughts of suicide
• What not to say to someone who has expressed thoughts of suicide
• What types of resources the church should have on hand for severe mental crises

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☀️ Morning reading from my latest book “Worthy: 50 Mindful Moments to Bring Clarity and Peace to You Day”. How does this passage resonate with you?

Now on sale at Amazon, @dayspringcards, Barns & Noble, etc. Link in bio ✨

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✨ Kait & JJ’s Wedding weekend ✨
We love love 😍 so we were so honored to be a part of our friends Kait and JJ’s special day in their new union as husband and wife 🎉

It’s been such a joy sharing in this season together with Kait. Being engaged together, going to each other’s bridal showers, and now each others weddings while checking in on each other, exchanging tips & ideas and just being there every step of the way. This has been a special summer for us that I’ll always remember ❤️

So cheers to the new Mr. & Mrs. Tomlin! 🥂 we’re so happy you guys found each other and pray for many blessings to come in your marriage.

PS- Jason mentioned this is our first wedding as a married couple and it’s giving me all the feels all over again 😆 isn’t this garden wedding theme just dreamy?? And how about it that splash ending 😜

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Wedding photos just came in and all I can say is, I’m in love all over again. 😍🥹

Thank you @funlovincamera_weddings for capturing such a magical and surreal day full of love. We have so many stunning photos I don’t know where to begin 😆

I’ll start with I love how sweet and classy these turned out at our venue @sherwood_country_club. More to come soon ✨

Florals: @princessfallar at @flawlessweddingsevents
Photography/Videography: @funlovincamera_weddings
Dress: @bellabridalcouture
Dress alterations: @vipalterations

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Believe it or not, when I thought of who my future husband might be, I kinda hoped he would love the musical arts as much as I did. Little did I know I’d end up with the phenomenal musician who is my husband and who continues to impress and inspire me every time with his dedication and passion for his craft at the piano.

I’m so proud of Jason for a stellar performance the last couple nights with the inspiring, collective musical talents of the @muse.ique orchestra. This night in particular included some of the classic scores from iconic hit films, many birthed here in the heart of LA.

We were thoroughly blessed by the singing talents of Rogelio Douglas Jr. @rdtripthret (I almost jumped out my seat when I heard this man sing), and Jason performed a couple pieces, including Rhapsody in Blue alongside American Ballet’s principal dancer @hermancornejo who danced masterfully and also came up with the choreography for this show. Everyone’s performing as a whole was all so incredible. 🔥

It’s nights like these that remind us how full our lives are and how thankful we are for the abundance of love and support from friends, and the gift of phenomenal musicianship that we don’t for one second take for granted. So grateful for this life with you @jstollpiano ❤️🙏🏽✨

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Can you believe my book releases in 11 days?? 🎉 Drop a 🙌🏽 if you’re ready for this!

Friend, have you found yourself feeling more anxious and overwhelmed in today’s cultural climate? Has the modern social media world and hustle culture left you on a rollercoaster of feeling insecure and inadequate no matter how much you do? Or do you tend to struggle with people pleasing in order to feel valuable and worthy?
You’re certainly not alone.

Many of us have been struggling at the intersection of our faith and our mind in today’s world.

So whether you need a total digital detox or just a little more balance, I’ve truly aimed to gather the information and inspiration to help you feel a little more refreshed, more clear and more at peace within each day.

These 50 faith-inspired devotions are integrated with helpful psychological tips and insights to reset each day with a grounded mind and spirit.

Through a beautiful simplistic design, and short, yet impactful, messages of peace and clarity, along with inspirational quotes and mental health trackers, readers will be able to declutter their minds, check-in with their mental health and focus on how to show up with intention for each day.

This interactive devotional will help you to:
• Practice a more grounded, internal sense of security
• Realign with your values and convictions to show up confidently as your true self
• Refresh your faith with the hope and peace of scripture
• Develop the tools to better cope with anxiety and overwhelm
• Redefine the necessary boundaries for your overall mental, emotional and spiritual health

Within “Worthy” get ready to reclaim your days with a sound mind to show up confidently for the live God has called you to live.

✨ Preorder on Amazon at the link in my bio ✨ (Releases August 23rd)

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I can’t wait to do everything under the sun with you 🤍

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Summers in New York have our heart 😍 and we can’t wait to be back again soon ✨

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New York in a Day: Part 2 🏙❤️
We saw the musical classic “Funny Girl” on Broadway for the first time featuring @jujujuliebee! Phenomenal, talented cast and highly recommended 👏🏽❤️ Followed by a night recap at @hotelhugosoho with a beautiful rooftop view of Manhattan with friends. Summers in New York have our heart 😍 and we can’t wait to be back again soon ✨

What’s your favorite thing to do or that you’d like to do in NY??

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New York in a Day: Part 1 🏙❤️
There was so much we wanted to catch up on in our quick trip to NY! We started our morning meeting with our dear friend @coreygonzalez_ for coffee & breakfast, then stopped by Jason’s old apartment and Alma Mater the @juilliardschool, followed by a stroll through Central Park, Time Square, and Grand Central Station 😍

What’s your favorite thing to do or one thing you’d like to do in NY?

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It’s a flight day for us today ✌🏽✈️ but about last night ✨…We had such a fun time seeing all our friends at @vibratogrilljazz for Jason’s performance with @take3trio.

I’ve seen their show many times both here and across the country and I still enjoy it every time. But it’s always so special when our friends come through locally and get to enjoy the experience. With nights like these surrounded by good food, phenomenal musical talent and sweet friends, we couldn’t ask for more ❤️ Here’s to safe travels for the week ahead 🙏🏽 and a happy weekend friends!

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Cheers to our first month of marriage 😜 Time is already flying. Now that we’ve gotten back settled a bit I was able to gather some of our favorite sweet memories from our mini-moon cruise trip on the @royalcaribbean this past week to Catalina & the @elcielowineryresort of Ensenada, Mexico 😌❤️ Here’s to summer fun and a lifetime of memories like this ✨

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Wouldn’t trade this life with you for the world 💕

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Still can’t get over this sunset view of the pacific from our cruise this week 😍

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